Clarification

To those with a greater understanding of the situation beyond the initials and allusions: I didn't mean to imply, in my post about what happened with D, that D's previous favorite band wasn't kind to him. Quite the opposite! I know that they were, in fact, exceptionally kind to D, and I know (now) that they were burned by him in much the same way that I was (except that he continued to obsess about them even after he was done using them and hopefully, he will leave me alone.)

What I meant to convey was that as nice and accommodating as the previous band was, the band of his most recent obsession was even more so, presumably due at least in part to their previously-established trust in me, developed through several months of friendship, and in my judgment of character. Hopefully, no ill consequences will befall them as a result of my misplaced extension of friendship and trust.

And now, back to your regularly-scheduled randomness and fangirling. Thanks for bearing with me; this angst-ridden, griping phase of the blog is getting too boring for even me to read.